FAMILY TIPS

FAMILY TIPS:

Here is a list of things you need to teach
your child/children at early age
:
1: Warn your girl child never to sit on
anyone's laps no matter the situation
including uncles.

2: Avoid getting dressed in front of your
child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to
excuse yourself.

3: If you have to hire a house-help, please
kindly take them for HIV screening to
determine their HIV status, properly
interview them and make up your mind to
treat them well.

4: Never allow any adult refer to your new
born as 'my wife' or 'my husband'.

5: Never tempt your husband with your
younger sister. (Else he'd say its her's and
the devil's fault)

6: Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make
sure you take care of your husband by
yourself lest you lead him into temptation. 

7: Whenever your child goes out to play
with friends make sure you look for a way
to find out what kind of play they played
together because young people now
sexually abuse themselves.

8: Never force your child to visit any adult
he or she is not comfortable
with and also be observant if your child
becomes too fond of a particular adult.

9: Once a very lively child suddenly
becomes withdrawn you might need to
patiently ask a lot of questions from your
child. If you don't teach your children
about sex, the society will teach them the
wrong values.

10: It is always advisable you go through
any new Material like cartoons or books
you just bought for them before they start
seeing it themselves.

11: Teach your 3 year old how to wash
their
private parts properly and warn them
never to allow anyone touch those areas
and that includes you (remember, charity
begins at
home and with you)

12: Blacklist some materials you think
could threaten the sanity of your child (that
includes music, movies and musicians) and
let them understand the value of standing
out of the crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a
particular person, don't keep quiet about
it.Take up the case and show them you can
defend them always.

Remember, we are either parents or
parents-to-be.